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Making Peace with the Past
"Striking the Set" is a term used in theater and film production. It means to take down or remove the set pieces, props, and other materials used for a particular production after the final performance has taken place. With the help of a crew, the set is dismantled, stored, and returned to its original state, ready to be prepared for the next production or event.
"Striking the Set" can also be used as a metaphor for the process of reevaluating and dismantling one's core beliefs and mental patterns in order to build new, healthier ones. In this context, it involves identifying and letting go of old patterns of thought and behavior that are no longer serving you and actively working to replace them with new ones that are more aligned with your values and goals.
At Every Age Every Stage, we have specific tools for you to use while you "Strike the Set" in your own life. A licensed therapist can help you navigate this process as you begin making peace with your past.
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Finding Joy in the Present
Learning to accept your present reality with compassion for yourself and others is vital no matter what the age or stage of life you are currently in. Focusing on what is in front of you can be difficult at times, but doing so will ultimately lead to finding joy in the present.
At Every Age Every Stage, we use Erik Erikson's Eight Stages of Development as our model and guide. Erikson’s theory consists of eight stages that individuals go through across the lifespan. Each stage involves a psychological crisis or challenge that must be resolved in order for the individual to develop a healthy sense of self and move on to the next stage.
Let us help you in this journey as you discover and learn to master each of these eight stages. Doing so will help you find joy as you engage in your stage of your life.
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Seeking Clarity for Your Future
As William Shakespeare once said, “All the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players; they have their exits and their entrances; and one man in his time plays many parts.” Creating the scene for the many parts of your life involves intentionally creating and nurturing the scenes of your life to promote personal growth, fulfillment, and happiness.
At Every Age Every Stage, we have identified 16 of the most common scenes of our lives. These scenes are: Career, Community, Educational, Emotional, Family/Current, Family/Extended, Financial, Health & Fitness, Hobbies & Leisure, House & Home, Intellectual, Love & Intimacy, Parenting, Personal Development, Social, And Spiritual.
Life is a journey, not a destination. It takes time, effort, and dedication to create the life you want. At times it may be painful, but with consistent effort and a clear vision, you can achieve your goals and live a fulfilling and meaningful life. We’re here to help you create the scenes just the way you want them.
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"Therapists share our pain
and touch our wounds with a
gentle and tender hand"
- Henri J.M. Nouwen
Life is a journey! along the way we all encounter a variety of challenges that shape who we are. At Every Age Every Stage, Center for Counseling, we understand the importance of individual needs and the transformative power of therapy.
Our team of compassionate and skilled therapists are here to guide you on a path towards healing, helping you find peace, joy, and clarity in life as you heal from the difficulties, traumas, abuse and loss that may have been part of your life experience.
Step into our center and find solace in a safe and nurturing space, where you can freely express yourself without judgment. Our therapists are here to listen, support, and empower you every step of the way as you embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth.
Together, we'll explore the depths of your past, releasing old burdens, reframing core beliefs, and cultivating new perspectives. Through evidence-based therapies, mindfulness practices, and inner child work, you'll reclaim your authentic self and find the resilience to thrive.
Whether you're seeking healing from childhood traumas, navigating life transitions, or seeking personal growth, Every Age Every Stage, Center for Counseling is here to support you.
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There are many different therapy approaches because there is no one-size-fits-all solution when it comes to mental health. Each person's experiences, personality, and challenges are unique. therefore, different therapy approaches are necessary to address their individual needs.
It's important to note that finding the right therapy approach can take time and may require trying different approaches until you find the one that works best for you. It's also common for therapists to integrate multiple therapy approaches into their treatment plans, depending on the client's needs and goals.
the goal of therapy is to help individuals improve their mental health and well-being, and the variety of therapy approaches available allows for more personalized and effective treatment.
The therapy approaches listed to the right are some of the most widely used therapeutic approaches. We invite you to read through each approach to determine which approach may be most helpful to your individual needs.
ACT or Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, is a type of psychotherapy that is rooted in the principles of mindfulness and acceptance. It is an evidence-based approach that has been found to be effective in treating a range of mental health conditions, including anxiety, depression, and substance abuse.
The goal of ACT therapy is to help individuals learn to accept their thoughts and emotions, rather than trying to control or eliminate them. This is based on the belief that struggling against difficult thoughts and emotions only serves to increase their power and intensity, leading to greater distress and suffering. Instead, ACT encourages individuals to accept their inner experiences, to observe them with curiosity and compassion, and to make choices based on their personal values and goals.
ACT - 6 CORE PROCESSES:
ACT therapy is typically delivered in a structured format, involving 8-12 sessions. Treatment may involve a combination of individual and group therapy, and may include exercises such as mindfulness meditation, values clarification, and cognitive defusion techniques.
Studies have shown that ACT is an effective treatment for a range of mental health conditions, including anxiety, depression, and substance abuse. ACT has also been found to improve overall quality of life and to increase resilience in the face of difficult life events. If you or a loved one is struggling with a mental health condition, ACT may be a valuable treatment option to consider.
CBT or Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, is a form of psychotherapy that has been shown to be highly effective in treating a wide range of mental health conditions. CBT is based on the idea that our thoughts, behaviors, and emotions are all interconnected, and that changing the way we think and behave can lead to significant improvements in our emotional well-being.
CBT has been extensively studied over the past several decades, and research consistently shows that it is a highly effective form of therapy. Here are just a few examples of the many mental health conditions that CBT has been shown to be effective in treating:
In addition to its effectiveness in treating specific mental health conditions, CBT has also been shown to be effective in improving overall emotional well-being and reducing symptoms of stress and anxiety in people without a diagnosed mental health condition.
CBT is typically delivered in a structured format over a period of several weeks or months, and often involves homework assignments and other therapeutic exercises to reinforce learning and promote lasting change. While CBT is generally considered a short-term form of therapy, many people continue to see benefits from CBT long after their therapy sessions have ended.
Overall, CBT is a highly effective form of therapy that has helped millions of people around the world to improve their emotional well-being and live happier, more fulfilling lives.
DBT or Dialectical Behavior Therapy, is a type of therapy that has been found to be particularly effective in treating a range of mental health conditions, including borderline personality disorder, substance abuse, and eating disorders. It is a form of cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) that emphasizes the development of skills to manage intense emotions, improve interpersonal relationships, and enhance overall functioning.
The effectiveness of DBT can be attributed to its comprehensive and structured approach, which includes individual therapy, group skills training, telehealth counseling, and when needed, phone coaching. The therapy is based on the concept of dialectics, which involves balancing and synthesizing opposing perspectives to arrive at a more balanced perspective. In the context of DBT, this means finding a balance between acceptance and change, and recognizing that both are necessary for progress.
One of the key components of DBT is skills training, which is typically delivered in a group setting. The skills taught include mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness.
Individual therapy in DBT focuses on identifying and changing specific behaviors that are causing problems in a person's life. It involves developing a plan to address these behaviors and working with the therapist to implement and evaluate the plan. Phone coaching is also available to provide support and guidance in real-time when challenging situations arise.
Studies have shown that DBT is an effective treatment for a variety of mental health conditions, with significant reductions in suicidal behavior, self-injury, substance use, and other problematic behaviors. Additionally, DBT has been found to improve overall functioning, including social and occupational functioning, reducing symptoms of anxietyand depression, and has been shown to be effective in treating a range of mental health conditions.
If you or a loved one is struggling with a mental health condition, DBT may be a valuable treatment option to consider.
EMDR, or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, is a therapy technique that has been shown to be effective in treating trauma-related disorders such as post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues. EMDR therapy involves a series of guided eye movements, sounds, or taps that help the patient process traumatic experiences and reduce their emotional and physiological distress.
Trauma is a deeply distressing experience that overwhelms a person's ability to cope. It can be caused by a variety of events, such as physical or sexual assault, combat, natural disasters, accidents, and other types of violence or abuse. Trauma can have a significant impact on a person's life, causing symptoms such as flashbacks, nightmares, hypervigilance, avoidance behaviors, and negative beliefs about oneself and others.
EMDR therapy works by helping the brain reprocess traumatic memories in a safe and controlled environment. During a typical EMDR session, the therapist will ask the patient to recall a specific traumatic event and then guide them through a series of eye movements or other bilateral stimulation techniques. These movements help activate the brain's natural healing process, allowing the patient to reprocess the traumatic memory and reduce their distressing symptoms.
One of the benefits of EMDR therapy is that it is typically a shorter-term treatment than traditional talk therapy. Many patients experience significant improvement after just a few sessions, although the length of treatment will depend on the individual's specific needs and the severity of their trauma.
Another advantage of EMDR therapy is that it can be used in conjunction with other treatments such as medication, cognitive-behavioral therapy, and mindfulness practices. This integrative approach can provide a comprehensive treatment plan for patients with complex mental health needs.
If you or someone you know is struggling with trauma-related symptoms, EMDR therapy may be an effective treatment option to consider. It is important to work with a licensed and trained therapist who can guide you through the process and help you achieve your treatment goals. Remember, healing from trauma is a journey, and with the right support and resources, it is possible to overcome the effects of even the most challenging experiences.
ART Therapy
Art therapy is a form of psychotherapy that uses creative expression as a means of promoting healing, growth, and well-being.
Here are some of the benefits of art therapy:
Overall, art therapy can be a powerful tool for promoting healing, growth, and well-being. By providing a safe and supportive space for creative expression, art therapy can help individuals to process difficult emotions, reduce stress, gain self-awareness, improve communication, and feel empowered in their own healing journey.
MUSIC Therapy
Music therapy is a form of therapy that uses music to address physical, emotional, cognitive, and social needs of individuals.
Here are some of the benefits of music therapy:
Overall, music therapy can be a powerful tool for promoting physical, emotional, cognitive, and social well-being. By using music to address specific needs and goals, music therapists can help individuals to improve their quality of life and reach their full potential.
SAND TRAY Therapy
Sand tray therapy is a form of play therapy that uses a tray filled with sand and various miniature objects to help clients explore their emotions, experiences, and relationships in a safe and non-judgmental environment. This type of therapy can be used with individuals of all ages, from children to adults, and has been found to be particularly effective for those who have difficulty expressing themselves verbally.
The sand tray itself is a rectangular or square container that can vary in size and depth. The sand is typically fine-grained and neutral in color, such as beige or white, to provide a blank canvas for the client to create their own world. The miniature objects can be anything from people, animals, buildings, and vehicles to abstract shapes, symbols, and natural elements like rocks and shells. These objects are usually kept in a collection, which the client can choose from and use to create scenes or landscapes in the sand tray.
During a sand tray therapy session, the client is given the freedom to create their own world in the sand tray without any guidance or interpretation from the therapist. The therapist may offer prompts or suggestions, but ultimately it is up to the client to decide what to include in their world and how to arrange the objects. This allows the client to express themselves in a non-verbal way, which can be especially helpful for those who have difficulty putting their feelings into words.
As the client creates their world, the therapist may ask questions or encourage the client to reflect on what they are creating and what it represents to them. For example, if the client places a figure of a person in the sand tray, the therapist may ask who the person represents and what they might be feeling or experiencing. This process can help the client gain insights into their thoughts, emotions, and relationships, as well as develop a greater sense of self-awareness and self-acceptance.
Sand tray therapy can be particularly useful for those who have experienced trauma, as it allows them to create a safe and contained space in which to explore their feelings and experiences. It can also be used to help clients work through difficult transitions, such as a divorce or a job loss, or to address issues related to anxiety, depression, or relationship problems.
Overall, sand tray therapy is a powerful tool for therapists to help clients explore their inner worlds and gain deeper insights into themselves and their relationships. By providing a safe and non-judgmental space for clients to express themselves, sand tray therapy can be an effective way to promote healing, growth, and self-discovery.
FST or Family Systems Theory, developed by psychiatrist Murray Bowen, is a psychological theory that examines the complex interactions within families and how these interactions influence the individual members and the family as a whole. Here is some information about Bowen's Family Systems Theory:
CORE CONCEPTS
In Bowen's Family Systems Theory, dysfunctional roles refer to patterns of behavior and interaction within a family that contribute to dysfunction and problems within the family system. These roles are often adopted by family members as a way to cope with anxiety, maintain stability, or manage emotional tensions.
BOWEN'S BASIC DYSFUNCTIONAL ROLES
It is important to note that these roles are not fixed or exclusive to one individual. Family members can shift between roles or take on multiple roles depending on the context and dynamics within the family system. Identifying and understanding these dysfunctional roles can be helpful in family therapy or interventions aimed at improving family functioning and fostering healthier patterns of interaction.
GOALS OF BOWENIAN THERAPY
Overall, Bowen's Family Systems Theory offers a comprehensive understanding of the intricate interplay between individuals and their families. It provides valuable insights into how family dynamics and emotional patterns can influence the well-being of individuals and the functioning of the family system.
The Gottman Method of Couples Therapy is an evidence-based approach developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. It is designed to help couples strengthen their relationships, improve communication, and resolve conflicts.
Here are the key components and techniques of the Gottman Method:
The Gottman Method emphasizes the importance of developing and maintaining positive interactions, managing conflicts effectively, and nurturing the friendship and intimacy within the relationship. Through the therapy process, couples can improve their communication, strengthen their bond, and create a more
satisfying and fulfilling relationship.
IFS or Internal Family Systems therapy is a type of psychotherapy that focuses on the different parts of an individual's personality, or their internal family system. Developed by Richard Schwartz in the 1980s, IFS is based on the idea that everyone has different parts within them, and that these parts can interact with each other in positive or negative ways.
In IFS therapy, the therapist works with the client to identify and understand their different parts, and to help them develop a more harmonious relationship between these parts. This is done through a process of guided self-discovery, where the client is encouraged to explore their inner world and to identify the different parts of themselves.
The different parts of an individual's personality in IFS therapy are categorized into three main groups: managers, firefighters, and exiles.
Through IFS therapy, clients learn to recognize and understand these different parts of themselves, and to work towards integrating them in a more positive and harmonious way. This can lead to greater self-awareness, improved emotional regulation, and a more fulfilling and authentic life.
One of the unique aspects of IFS therapy is its emphasis on the idea that every part of an individual has a positive intention. Even the parts that seem negative or harmful are seen as trying to protect the individual in some way. By recognizing and honoring these positive intentions, clients can develop greater compassion for themselves and their internal family system.
Overall, IFS therapy is a powerful and effective form of psychotherapy that can help individuals to heal and grow in a deep and meaningful way. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, or other mental health issues, IFS therapy may be able to help you develop a greater sense of self-awareness, inner peace, and self-acceptance.
Motivational interviewing or MI is a therapeutic approach that is focused on helping individuals resolve ambivalence and make positive changes in their behavior. It is often used to help people who are struggling with addiction, but it can be applied to a wide range of issues.
Some of the key principles of MI include:
Some of the benefits of MI include:
Overall, MI is a client-centered approach that can help individuals to identify and overcome their ambivalence about making positive changes in their behavior. It can be an effective tool for promoting behavior change and improving overall well-being.
Narrative therapy is an approach to psychotherapy that emphasizes the stories we tell about ourselves and our experiences. It views problems as separate from people and seeks to help individuals change the way they see themselves and their lives by rewriting their personal narratives.
BENEFITS OF NARRATIVE THERAPY:
Overall, narrative therapy can be a powerful tool for helping individuals overcome challenges, build resilience, and create more positive and empowering stories about their lives.
Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy or REBT is a type of psychotherapy that focuses on helping individuals identify and change irrational beliefs and thought patterns that contribute to emotional distress and unhealthy behaviors. Some of the
BENEFITS OF REBT INCLUDE:
KEY SCHEMAS OF REBT INCLUDE:
Overall, REBT can be a highly effective therapy for individuals who want to improve their emotional well-being, develop more adaptive beliefs and behaviors, and enhance their overall quality of life.
SFT or Solution-focused therapy, is a goal-oriented approach to therapy that focuses on identifying and building upon clients' strengths, rather than dwelling on problems and difficulties. SFT is based on the belief that clients have the ability to solve their own problems and create positive change in their lives.
In SFT, the therapist and client work together to identify specific, achievable goals and develop strategies to achieve those goals. The therapist helps the client to identify their strengths, resources, and previous successes, and encourages them to use these assets to overcome current challenges.
One of the key principles of SFT is the belief that change is constant and that small changes can have a big impact. This is why SFT therapists focus on creating small, manageable steps towards achieving the client's goals. These steps are called "miracle questions," which help the client to envision a future where their problem is solved and to identify specific actions they can take to move towards that future.
SFT is a brief therapy, meaning that it typically takes fewer sessions than other types of therapy. This is because SFT focuses on the present and the future, rather than the past. SFT is also very client-centered, meaning that the therapist empowers the client to take control of their own life and create their own solutions.
SFT can be applied to a wide range of issues, including anxiety, depression, addiction, relationship problems, and more. It can be used in individual therapy, couples therapy, and family therapy.
Overall, SFT is a positive and empowering approach to therapy that focuses on solutions rather than problems. By identifying and building upon clients' strengths and resources, SFT can help clients create positive change in their lives and achieve their goals.
Therapy can benefit you in a variety of ways, depending on your individual needs and goals. Here are some of the potential benefits of therapy:
working with a Licensed therapist will help you find peace, joy, and clarity, while developing new skills and strategies to help you navigate life's challenges and build a more fulfilling and satisfying life!
Social self-care is a vital part of your overall well-being that involves building and maintaining healthy relationships with others, including Friends, Family, Neighbors, work associates & etc.
Physical self-care is crucial for maintaining overall well-being. It involves taking care of your body through healthy habits and practices. This includes sleeping, drinking water, eating, being active, & seeking treatments.
Intimate self-care involves taking care of one's inner circle, closest relationships. as well as your sexual needs. It is an important aspect of overall well-being and can help improve self-esteem, confidence, and overall happiness.
Cerebral self-care involves engaging in activities that stimulate both the cognitive and creative parts of the mind. doing so can positively impact our overall health and well being.
Emotional self-care is essential for maintaining good mental health and well-being. It involves taking care of your emotions and finding ways to regulate them effectively.
Spiritual self-care is an important aspect of overall well-being that involves connecting with one's inner self, beliefs, values, goals, desires, and purpose.
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